A few years ago, when I was living in Texas, I got to interact with a good number of international students from different countries. We would occasionally talk about strange things "the Americans" would say or do. In many of those conversations, some of my international colleagues said that they didn't understand how Americans could ask someone "how are you?" without expecting an honest answer. I mean, how are you usually leads only to "fine, thanks" or, at worst, "not so great today," and if someone starts really telling you about their problems and issues, probably you will run away or regret asking the question.
Well, this week I have been walking into people here in the office who routinely greet me with a "how are you?" as salutation. Sure, they don't expect/need a detailed report on what's going on in my world. Balls, have I struggled to put on a "fine, thanks" default answer this week. Things have improved a little bit today (my job simply doesn't allow for more than three sad days in a row). However, I cannot give you an honest "I am fine, thanks" answer when there are so many things going inside my head. Coming up next: a busy weekend with trips to the office on Saturday and Sunday.
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